Clarifying Comments on Internet and Video Game Addictions

January 13th, 2009 by exgamer | Filed under 12 Steps, Addiction.

I’ve been talking with a new blogger on his opinion regarding my comments published here on January 1st. I was very critical of John Grohol’s position on Internet addiction. The new blogger’s response can be found here.

I responded with the following, especially where Grohol and video gaming was concerned:

My main issue with Dr. Grohol was his complete ignorance on this issue. I take issue with anyone jumping into this debate and embracing either of two extremes:

1. Demonizing gamers and software makers.
2. Making light of the situation and mocking people who are suffering from a new and emerging addiction.

The issue of personal responsibility is woven through my writing and national media appearances in the United States and Canada. Where game addiction is concerned, I believe we’re at the same stage that alcoholism was in the early days of A.A. People used to believe alcoholics were simply weak-willed people who just needed to ’stop drinking and get a job.’ In a more enlightened era, we now know there’s quite a bit more going on the brains of hardcore drinkers, and they desperately need 12-step communities and rehab programs.

Similarly, we are learning more from recent MRI scans of gamers’ brains and the psychological reinforcements schedules built into these games. I believe the game manufacturers have been caught off guard by the addiction issues we’re seeing today, but they have to respond to them – soon!

On a personal note, it takes a serious commitment to quit a destructive gaming habit, and accepting responsibility for the harm I caused is an ongoing process, even after a year of ’sobriety.’

Be sure to check out The Wrath of El Niño blog when you have a moment. The link is in my bookmarks.

Thanks,
Brad

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2 Responses to “Clarifying Comments on Internet and Video Game Addictions”

  1. Gina Pera says:

    HI there,
    I just found your blog. Thank you for taking a stand on this issue.

    The bottom line: We are submitting brains that have changed essentially little for 35,000 years to activities that can prove highly addictive for many of us — in a grand but oh-so-risky experiment.

    As an advocate in the ADHD community for ten years, I can tell you that video gaming addiction is a huge issue — among children with ADHD, young adults, and adults. Thank you for speaking up. I look forward to reading more of your blog.

    Gina Pera, author
    Is It You, Me, or Adult A.D.D.?
    My recent post School Daze- School Daze- Report Cards and All

  2. Rich says:

    I agree completely with your synopsis of this issue, Brad. This is NOT a black/white issue as so many people try to make it, and there ARE true physical and mental manifestations of this addiction.

    Speaking of "mocking and making light of…", I have always found that many outlets for gaming coverage are the worse culprits of this… I wrote an article, (shameless self-promotion >.>), early in my blog experience about WoWInsider, a blog designed to cover daily aspects of the World of Warcraft MMORPG and it's insensitivity to the addiction issue.

    - Just so you know, I enjoy your writing and have added you to my RSS feeder at Google. Based on your comment, I went and checked out your article on MRI readings on gaming addicts reactions to their fix. :D

    Keep up the good work and I, like I'm sure many others, are reading :)